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If you\u2019ve started your life coaching business<\/a> and have at least one client, you have the spark to generate a supply of new clients.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019re talking about referrals!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When used strategically, a referral program can help you start a flywheel that propels your coaching business forward at no extra cost. Using your existing customers to find new ones is one of the best ways to find new business.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Keep reading to learn who and how to ask for a referral.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What Is a Referral?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A referral is when someone refers another person to your business. They reach out to someone in their network who could be a good fit for your programs and services<\/a> and put you in touch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019ve ever known a service provider in your local area who gets all their customers from word-of-mouth, that\u2019s referral marketing in action. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Many businesses encourage referrals by offering an incentive to those who recommend new customers or clients. For example, a discount or other reward for recommending the business through email, social media, or word of mouth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Larger businesses sometimes offer their customers a referral link for easier tracking. If anyone signs up through that link, both the old and new customers get a discount on future services.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, the most trustworthy referrals are those that aren\u2019t incentivized and come from someone who genuinely recommends your work. People who refer you because they had a great experience with you are vouching for your coaching quality, reliability, and expertise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why Are Referrals Important for Life Coaches?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Referrals are one of the easiest ways to get coaching clients<\/a>. They provide potential new customers with social proof that your methods work and that booking with you is worth their time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They don\u2019t just need to take your word for it but can listen to the experiences of happy customers who worked with you in the past.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

All life coaches should implement referrals into their marketing strategy<\/a>, regardless of experience, and here\u2019s why.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Referrals Cost You Nothing<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Leads you get from paid ads<\/a> are expensive. Leads you get from organic social media marketing<\/a> cost you time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But the leads you get from referrals cost you nothing. It takes just a few minutes of your time to send a referral request email to an existing client to ask if they know anyone who may need your coaching services.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. The Sales Process is Faster<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Normally, a cold lead might take weeks or months to become a paying client.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They discover you on social media, check out a few of your posts, and maybe give you a follow. Then, if you turn up on their feed often, they might eventually decide to book a discovery call<\/a> with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This process is long because\u2014surprise, surprise\u2014it takes a while to get to know someone! And if you\u2019re going to pay someone to coach you, it\u2019s important to have a foundation of trust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

People who come to you through referrals don\u2019t know you. However, they do know that you\u2019ve helped someone they know. This makes it much easier to build a relationship with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Higher Trust Leads to Higher Conversions<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

People tend to trust what their friends tell them. So when a client refers someone to you, that person is more likely to trust you compared to a complete stranger, even if your coaching rates<\/a> are on the high side.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Their friend has already vouched for you and might have gushed about the amazing results you\u2019ve helped them achieve. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

At this point, they\u2019re practically sold!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why referrals generate conversion rates that are 3-5 times higher<\/a> than other marketing strategies. Those clients also have 37% higher retention rates and are four times more likely to refer more clients to you. They are far more likely to trust a recommendation from someone they know than the reviews from strangers on your website.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Imagine if you could get every single client to send a referral your way. You would hardly need to market yourself in other ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Referral Clients Are More Loyal<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

On average, 78% of people say<\/a> that clients who come from referrals are more loyal than those they acquire through other channels. So not only is it easier to close them, but you\u2019re likely to nurture a longer and better coaching relationship<\/a> with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Referrals Expose Your Business to Your Target Audience<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Why do your existing clients bring you the best referrals? Because they are sharing your services with a very targeted audience. Referred clients typically come from people with similar interests, backgrounds, or needs as the person who recommended them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Referrals Expand Your Network<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

When you ask people to refer your coaching business, it helps expose you to a wider network of people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Those who refer you may be well-connected in other industries and can introduce you to new opportunities, collaborations, or partnerships. This opens new doors to a wider pool of potential clients and professional connections.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Referrals Help Your Long-Term Business Growth<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

To create longevity for your coaching business, you must figure out how to get a steady stream of clients.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Using a referral program to grow your network<\/a> can future-proof your client acquisition efforts. If you have enough people who refer you to their network, you\u2019ll have a long waitlist of people who want to work with you in the future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The organic growth that referrals can create can help you build a sustainable coaching business<\/a> that has a long future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Referrals Build Your Reputation<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Gaining credibility in the life coaching industry can be difficult, especially with so much competition out there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you have lots of referrals, you build trust amongst future clients and prove that the services you provide are exceptional. When you consistently deliver great results, it will be a no-brainer that clients refer you to their friends and family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Who Should Coaches Ask for Referrals?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

If you want to use referrals successfully, you will need to get good at maintaining relationships with existing customers, build a strong network of like-minded people, and consistently deliver excellence with your coaching programs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

With a community of fellow coaches or coachees around you, asking for referrals should be a breeze. Remember, you can always reciprocate the favor for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Below are the best places to look if you want to generate referrals for your life coaching services<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Existing Clients<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Satisfied clients you currently work with are the most obvious choice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If they have experienced positive results from your coaching, they are likely to vouch for you. They\u2019re also ideal candidates to ask for a testimonial<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sending them a personalized email asking if they know anyone who could benefit from your coaching services is the perfect place to start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Leads Who Didn\u2019t Convert<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t get discouraged if you get on the phone with a potential coaching client and they\u2019re not ready to work with you. That person may not be financially or emotionally ready to commit yet, even if they trust you. Or you may not have the exact coaching style<\/a> that suits them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That doesn\u2019t mean they don\u2019t know someone else who could benefit from your coaching. If you get a good vibe from the call, feel free to follow up in an email to ask if anyone knows anyone who would benefit from your coaching packages<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It might feel intimidating to ask a favor from someone who has turned you down. But stepping out of your comfort zone from time to time is necessary to build a thriving life coaching business. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Friends and Family<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Your relatives and close friends have friends you don\u2019t know. And those friends have other friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While your current circle may not be the best fit for your coaching packages<\/a> (or they might be too close to home), they may know someone you could work with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Your Professional Connections<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you already have a strong network of professional contacts, reaching out to them for referrals can be an effective way to expand your customer base.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

All it takes is a compelling email explaining the type of clients you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Your Partners or Collaborators<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Do you have any partnerships with other coaches? Have you collaborated with others in your niche to help get your name out there? They could be the perfect people to request referrals from.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You could suggest a referral exchange where you refer new clients to each other. Send out a mutually beneficial email asking for referrals to both of your mailing lists.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How to Ask For Referrals in an Email: 5 Things to Remember<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Here are some important things to remember when asking your network for a referral via email.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Wait Until You\u2019ve Established Rapport<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Imagine you\u2019re someone who wants to hire a coach. As soon as you sign the contract and make the first payment, you get asked to refer someone else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Woah, back up a sec! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s better to wait until you have more rapport with your coaching client. It\u2019s difficult to refer someone when you\u2019ve just paid for their services. At that point, the ball is in your court; they\u2019ve put their trust in you, and you must return the favor by providing a stellar coaching experience. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once they\u2019ve begun to get some traction, you can start thinking about making that ask. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Choose a Good Time<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

At this point, you should be getting to know your client fairly well. You might even know what time of day they\u2019re more likely to be checking their emails.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Make sure you message them at the right time<\/a> to avoid other emails burying yours in the inbox. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Offer an Incentive<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re not sure someone will take you up on your referral email, make them a better offer! You can do this by giving an incentive if they refer someone to you who\u2019s a good fit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Over 50% of people<\/a> are likely to give a referral if they receive an incentive, social recognition, or access to a loyalty program. Some examples of incentives could be:<\/p>\n\n\n\n